“I Caught My Son Looking at Internet Pornography!”
Nothing is more tragic than seeing your beautiful child lose his precious innocence. This issue is made even worse when that drama involves internet pornography, the diseased vice that spreads through wires and techno bits across the world with an easy click. How does a mother face this situation from a Christian perspective? It takes a great deal of love and faith. Many “liberated” parents take the position that this sort of thing is natural and necessary, but keeping the Spirit of the Lord strong in your home takes a different approach.
The instructional video below is a great resource for parents of teen boys. It shows how one can handle the discovery of a porn-surfing son with a firm hand. You need to be passionate, direct and ready with Scripture. The scenario presented here is forthright without being confrontational, wise without being pedantic and parental without being too liberal. Don’t let this important issue slip by on your watch. Don’t delay, parents need to deal with the problem of teen sexuality right away!
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Author: Stephenson Billings
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This video needs to be shown in every middle school in America!
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Thank you my friend. If our schools had a little faith in patriotism, that would happen!
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5:13 pm
What about the jewish or public schools? Jews don’t believe the same shit you do. Public schools cannot pick one religion to teach the kids because thats just fucking crazy. Education is an amazing thing, and no one should be left out of proper learning because some religions believes sex is sin and knowing about your body is wrong. Get real.
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6:17 pm
How is masturbation religious?
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6:30 pm
This is a video where diffrent passages of your bible are read. This video clearley has a religious twist jackass.
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6:20 pm
Abstinence and purity are taught in most school, although in Liberal states like California and New York they aren’t too good about explaining this to teens.
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6:28 pm
Im in Jersey and out teenage pregnency rate is alot lower then texas or florida. They tell us the truth, and we know how to prevent things.
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6:29 pm
Abstinence is the only surefire way to prevent STDs and pregnancy.
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6:36 pm
Abstinence may be the only way that has a 100% success rate at preventing STDs and pregnancy, but good luck telling a bunch of horny teenagers who are dumb and were lied to quite a few other times that. Condoms and other birth control measures at least have a fighting chance while they’re in mid-coitus.
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6:37 pm
If you dont teach the kids about how to prevent things, because no matter what you teach kids will always fuck, then teenage pregnancies become few to none. If you don’t tell them about stds and how to prevent pregnancies and they do fuck, which will happen, then these things become more prevolent.
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7:23 pm
Here’s an idea of how to preventing STDs and pregnancy. It may be seem “old-fashioned and quaint” to some of you heathens, but it is certainly tried and certainly TRUE!
Get a clue!
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7:35 pm
If you can put a bible in between two horny teenagers as they’re doing it, Clownboy, I will do two things: 1) be impressed that you managed to keep a bible in between two people while they were having sex, and 2) have you arrested for looking at naked minors.
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10:03 pm
Or really, Stephenson? How can you call yourself Christian and say that abstinence is a foolproof method of avoiding pregnancy? According to your bible, Mary waited beyond that, and it didn’t really help that much.
Also, the Bible gives a specific explanation as to who we are not allowed to bang. I think it’s Leviticus 18. By saying who we’re not allowed to have “relations” with, it’s accepting our nailing everyone else.
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12:29 pm
In liberal states they teach kids how to use a condom with a banana. Condoms: 60% effective for preventing pregnancy, 40% effective for preventing STDS.
In liberal states they tell kids they have no self control when it comes to sex, so they must instead use birth control, which educators are SURE the kids will have total self discipline over.
Why tell a kid abstinence is the only 100% effective way to prevent pregnancy or STDS, when it’s much more plausible that kids will use condoms 100% of the time, and ensure a 60% success rate for pregnancy, or a 40% success rate in preventing AIDS or other STDS?
Makes sense to me.
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11:26 am
Proper learning = Porn familiarization???
Porn familiarization = Religious training??
Religious training = All sex is Sin??
Jewish schools are PRIVATE. So are Christian schools.
You believe ALL sex is good, and that some religions teach “knowing your body is wrong”, and propose your ideas about sex education should be the prevailing one?
God help us.
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4:46 pm
Or, rather, you could take the sensible route and talk to them and answer their questions, and realize that religion has been manipulated throughout all of history and you’re doing absolutely nothing to help get the truth out.
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6:22 pm
In your mind masturbation is something parents should encourage and celebrate? That’s just sick.
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6:34 pm
I said parents should talk with their child and answer questions. If a kid ends up looking at porn behind their parent’s back and they start feeling something due to hitting puberty, about then is the time to start talking about that sort of thing.
Pin point where I specifically said that it should be encouraged and celebrated.
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7:25 pm
“…it should be encouraged and celebrated.” – L.N in the context of encouraging children to masturbate – December 2, 2011 6:34 PM
You’re sick.
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7:34 pm
Typical lying sack of shit. You can’t find any actual evidence so you go and make it up.
Well, since you like to make up your quotes, how about I do the same?
“Oh let’s make a big joke out of rape!”
–Stephenson Billings, commenting that he doesn’t take rape seriously at all.
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7:39 pm
“It shows how one can handle…a…son with a firm hand. You need to be passionate, direct and ready…”
–Stephenson Billings, in the context of touching children.
See Clownboy, it’s quite easy to take what someone said and spin it around, now how about you quote me directly on where I said it should be encouraged in the ACTUAL context.
Failure to do so and you will be known as a rapist and a pedophile forever.
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9:59 pm
“Chinese people are homogays, but i am not rascist. Oh, and black people always go to jail”
-Albert Toppers
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12:32 pm
That’s because LN doesn’t want his child pornography fantasy mainline cut off.
Can you blame him?
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12:06 pm
Religion is comprised of people who share the same, or similar, spiritual beliefs. There are varying religions among the spiritual community. Some of these religions teach a shameful view of sex, or a negative assessment of the human body.
Sexual gratification is a natural drive for almost all human beings. There are varying sexual preferences among human beings. Some of these preferences, or fetishes include pedophilia, exhibitionism, frotteurism, voyeurism, sexual masochism, sexual sadism, or transvestic fetishism.
Children and adults exposed to porn on a regular basis often develop some of the above sexual perversions.
“A 1984 study by Dolf Zillmann of the University of Indiana and Jennings Bryant of the University of Houston found evidence that shows an exposure to non-violent pornography leads to an increased interest in violent porn.” It also creates a taste for porn that portrays less commonly practiced sexual activities, including those involving the infliction of pain.” In Zillman and Bryant’s research featured in the Journal of Applied Social Psychology (Vol. 18, 1988) it revealed that repeated exposure to pornography results in a decreased satisfaction with one’s sexual partner, with the partner’s sexuality, with the partner’s sexual curiosity, a decrease in the valuation of faithfulness, and a major increase in the importance of sex without attachment.”
I think I’d worry more about a child’s exposure to porn, than their exposure to a rigid sexual moral system in some religions.
Don’t you?
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4:28 pm
I think the link between non-violent pornography and violence is enlightening and terrifying. This is precisely the sort of thing Christians have been trying to tell the world for decades and no one listens.
I have to disagree with your idea that sexual gratification is natural. There is nothing right about the filthy act of sodomy or pedophilia or homosexuality. Some people are just sick in the head and need to be treated with faith and love.
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4:37 pm
“Some people are just sick in the head ”
Just like you.
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5:07 pm
“…the diseased vice that spreads through wires and techno bits across the world with an easy click.”
Techno bits? That sounds like a sound clip from a techno song. I believe the word you were looking for was circuit board or hard drive or motherboard, or anything but this poor word choice.
“Many “liberated” parents take the position that this sort of thing is natural and necessary…”
I live in an area full of people from all religions, and I don’t know what a liberated parent would be? Non religious, not the same religion as you, not a right wing nutjob? The few friends that i know have been caught jerking off to porn by a parent have all gotten a talk from their parents, and all the talks were that they know that it won’t be stopped and to not do it when they were around. 2 of them come from very religious christian homes, and if their parents asked them these questions, they wouldnt be all like “yes my body is full of darkness” but would say something to the likes of thats fucking dumb. Porn is something that will always be around, and is hard to avoid. Porn is 38% of what the internet is, which is a large number concidering that there are millions of websites. Porn is pretty much the same thing as keeping your eyes open while having sex. If you are looking at a woman when you fuck her, and porn is watching sex, then it should be a sin to look at the woman you are fucking.
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6:21 pm
When you have your own journalism career, why don’t you email me a link so I can criticize your writing? Until then, keep the annoying prose commentary to yourself, amateur.
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6:37 pm
You don’t like criticism Billings? Then shut the hell up. And how can you call yourself a journalist? You can’t even name the proper company of a product you dislike, nor can you even name the correct items that are related to that product! Even AFTER you got done claiming you researched it!
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7:26 pm
We all make mistakes, L.N. Just some of our mistakes are bigger than others. Some mistakes lead to an eternity in hellfire. I will pray for you. Please seek the Lord.
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7:36 pm
You certainly don’t think you make mistakes, and you’re constantly sucking Billings dick and lying about everything.
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4:25 pm
Your parents made a big mistake by not using a condom.
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6:43 pm
The fact that you call yourself a journalist, yet you spread lies and hate sickens me. I may not be a journalist, but even a civilian with real knowledge of things can write down a comment to show your faults. This petty comeback just shows me you could not see a fault in my reply except for my “lack of journalistic abilities”
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1:05 pm
Hey Zacc, journalists are civilians. They’re REAL civilians. Just like you. Except journalists excel at writing and reporting.
Usually.
You don’t excel at either, ever. Usually.
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12:57 pm
Zakk S said-” Porn is something that will always be around, and is hard to avoid. Porn is 38% of what the internet is, which is a large number concidering that there are millions of websites. Porn is pretty much the same thing as keeping your eyes open while having sex.”
We have a lot in common Zacc! I say murder is something that will always be around, it’s hard to avoid, especially if you’re an unborn person, or a woman. Murder is pretty much the same thing as keeping your eyes open while you butcher your voodoo doll. If you are looking at your voodoo doll when you butcher it, then it should be a sin to look at your human victim when you murder him or her.
Makes sense to me.
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4:29 pm
Brilliant counterpoint! Just because something is there, doesn’t mean that it’s good or that we should all do it. This is precisely why we have moral rules, they tell us how to avoid crossing the line. The retarded and the degenerates don’t always understand this, and children too. The Bible is the standard and the truth. That’s all the confused people need to know.
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4:36 pm
So you’re using that as an excuse as to why you don’t actually follow Christian rules?
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5:04 pm
I can use that logic too. Just because the Bible is there and says it’s the word of God, doesn’t mean we should believe it.
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6:11 pm
Stabbing a fake doll in the shape of a human isn’t the same as murdering someone. I’ve ripped heads off Barbie dolls before, arms too, legs even. (Because the doll was creeping me out and it had to be destroyed…)
Punching a stuffed animal or punching bag or dummy is different than punching a human. We know that said inanimate objects aren’t real, don’t get hurt and don’t feel pain, but humans are a completely different story.
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5:29 pm
There is nothing “natural” about this porn smut that todays people look at.
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5:39 pm
To you, no. To someone else, yes.
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6:20 pm
Porn leads to masturbation and masturbation is rape and a sin.
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6:28 pm
Hmmm.
Masturbation = Rape
Rape = The crime, committed by a man, of forcing another person to have sexual intercourse with him, esp. by the threat or use of violence.
I don’t see how porn could lead to that.
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6:51 pm
http://christwire.org/2011/03/is-masturbation-rape/
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The Sexual Offences Act 2003 under section 1(1) SOA 2003 a defendant, A, is guilty of rape if:
_ A intentionally penetrates the vagina, anus or mouth of B (the complainant) with his penis;
_ B does not consent to the penetration; and,
_ A does not reasonably believe that B consents.
Thinking about someone isn’t rape.
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6:46 pm
The only rape going on here is you raping the minds of others with your B.S.
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6:50 pm
Oh let’s make a big joke out of rape!
Zak, why are you liberals so recklessly foul?
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6:56 pm
Why are you so determined to not answer questions and change the subject. You claim masturbation is rape of the soul, Zak claimed your lies are raping minds.
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7:31 pm
Rape is masturbation and masturbation is SIN.
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7:58 pm
So you’re saying that Billings is committing a sin then.
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9:53 pm
You think i’m bad for saying that? Look at Tyson’s list of words to use instead of saying jerking off your cock.
“50.Making a tablespoon of Holocaust”
Am i truley the enemy? One of the top dogs on this website compared sperm to the murdering of 6 million+ of my ancesters. Rape may be a bad thing, but saying sperm is the same as 6 million+ actualy born humans is true evil.
Also Albert, Rape is not masturbation. A woman being forced to have sex by a man with a gun in an allyway is not the same as a young boy playing with his cock.
Lastley, its zaKK. learn to spell it, i promise you will be seeing it more often billings.
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12:08 pm
Yes, you’re right. To you pedophilia might seem perfectly natural. To others a perversion and a crime.
Good point.
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6:06 pm
I like how she asks the kid to find the websites for her.
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6:41 pm
why isn’t he wearing a shirt? Did he just get finished spanking it or something?
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7:47 pm
It is how kids dress these days.
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I only know one kid who walks around with his shirt off, and its because he is an arogant asshole. Kids wear shirts because they aren’t wild beasts.
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12:14 pm
Does that turn you on? You may like voyeurism. Or maybe you’re a pedophile….hmmm……..whatever, at least you’re not being a total pervert by suggesting kids shouldn’t look at porn.
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8:58 pm
“…handle the discovery of a porn-surfing son with a firm hand.”
Yes; firmly handle your porn watching son.
(Giggidy)
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12:26 am
Porn is awesome
Masturbation is great
That is all
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12:16 pm
I’m sure there are oodles of folks who think women are slabs of meat, and self gratification is better than the real thing, agree with you.
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12:26 pm
I do not find women as “Slabs of meat” Hell, I don’t think “self gratification” is better then the real thing. But for those of us who have a hard time getting a girlfriend (maybe due to a crippling fear of rejection) I think if we didn’t do it everyonce in awhile, we would slowly die inside until we are walking husks of a person void of feelings or emotion…I’ve been close to that, it’s not fun
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3:02 am
I don’t quite see how masturbation is rape. Isn’t rape being forced to have sex with someone else and if your masturbating your willingly doing that? Enlighten me Christwire!
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10:49 am
This is what I got told;
Fantasizing about another person or person
Looking at dirty Magazines
Watching dirty Movies
The internets.
Past Experiences
These are all methods of rape whilst “Making a tablespoon of Holocaust” apparently!
It makes me laugh quite heartily.
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5:43 pm
“I Caught My Son Looking at Internet Pornography!”
OH MY GOD! LIKE YOU DON’T DO IT TOO.
And what school would show a crap video like that.
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7:48 pm
“How does a mother face this situation from a Christian perspective?”
What about a father?
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9:15 pm
A father would like undue his belt and give the boy a good tanning!
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9:54 pm
“Undue” his belt? I think you mean “undo”. Idiot.
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6:51 pm
And then if I found out who the father responsible for that was I’d snap his neck like a twig. That simple.
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10:13 pm
dude! about 98% of the male teens have masturbated and the 2% left are only wierdos
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6:51 pm
atheistsrock96, You mock the 2% who are obedient to God’s will and teachings and call them… “weirdos.” But on the day of judgement, when you stand before the Lord God almighty with your unit in hand while wacking it to your favorite issue of Boy’s Life magazine there will be no place for you to hide. God sees all, he knows how many socks in your bedroom are as stiff as a board and how many times you touch yourself. One day you too will be judged, when that day comes I’d rather be with the 2% you call weirdos.
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So, in other words, God is a stalker.
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