Should churches begin excommunicating infertile couples to win the marriage equality debate? Some see the action as necessary. “I would rather be gay than childless” one young woman confessed during the Barren Believers couples retreat meeting. A shocking observation by any standard, it reflects the deeply personal pain facing Christians dealing with unfruitfulness or homosexuality. The subject is deserving of compassion. Caught between what ‘can’ be done with the aid of science and what ‘should’ be done, many loving couples [...]